I’m sure everybody here has heard people offering opinions on the whole phenomenon that is video chat. Most of them are very vehement in their denouncing it or listing reasons why it’s something bad. Funny thing is that most of them have no idea what they’re talking about. Due to the way society still reacts towards cam girls and generally towards people that work in the industry those that are on the “inside” tend to be very protective of themselves and won’t talk or share about it to almost anyone. And who can blame them to be honest? Mob mentality is a scary thing and having people turn on you like this just because you do something they don’t understand or are not properly informed about. So most people will be completely on their guard when it comes to sharing about their job.
Spend just a couple of days around women that perform on camera if you have the occasion and you’ll see how and why they are wrong exactly. It mostly stems from the taboo that is sex in society. I’m not going to go into why that’s a thing in this day and age because the discussion is interminable, suffice it to say that a lot of people still think sex is something mystical, shameful, bad, to be embarrassed about…etc. Obviously for people with a narrow point of view like that the conclusion is easy. Video chatting means naked people, naked people means sex…therefore bad! With that leap of logic not only have they reduced one of the most fun activities two (or more if you’re feeling adventurous) consenting adults could have to something “bad”, they have also disregarded the big percentage of people that actually miss companionship, someone to talk to, someone to share things with that come to visit the models. And that is a huge disservice for people that actually are going through something, would like to talk to someone and are tempted to join up on a site and talk to one of the ladies online. Instead of finding a healthy outlet for their problems, they end up bottling it up and potentially harming their own psyche just because they read somewhere online that video chat is “bad”.
Don’t get me wrong, members do come just for the sexual gratification too and there is nothing wrong with that. The performer is willing to put on a show for that and they can be damn good at it. Nothing wrong with two people having fun, even if it’s through the medium of a web cam. But sometimes that’s not the case, or maybe that is exactly the case but they want to spend sometimes afterwards for a talk. I know the saying goes “You can’t have your cake and eat it too.” But there is nothing to stop you from trying.
If you ever get the chance to talk to one of the models that do this and you’re close enough to ask them without making it weird, ask them if they have members that come see them just for talking. You’ll be surprised at the answer… Not everybody is good at finding companionship in the “real world”. Maybe some people have issues that are too self-conscious about, maybe it’s something they want to keep away from the world. You never know. This way they can share intimacy with someone while staying within their safe zone. A successful cam girl will have way above average people skills developed just because of this. They listen out to a lot of problems, and a lot of people going through things and most of the times they try helping to the best of their abilities. An advice here, a smile there…maybe the member just needs someone to talk to at that moment.
There are so many stories out there online of guys finding help in the virtual arms of such a woman. And while the factor of the potential sexual nature of the relationship is clearly a layer of the relationship I don’t think it subtracts from it, more so it can actually enhance it. You are a lot more comfortable in talking and sharing with someone that you just had sex with. There is an air of closeness between you and that person in that moment in which you can both be perfectly honest because there are no risks to it. You already have been at your most vulnerable in front of each other, what is there to hide anymore?
Does any of that sound like something harmful? Another complaint you frequently hear is that it can become addictive and hurtful to you as a person. That is something that can happen in real life as well…obsessing over someone, thinking only about that…it’s something unrelated to the platform on which it happens. Face to face or on camera. Those are issues that pertain to the person, not the activity.
Having spent enough time around cam girls talking about it and, in turn, getting things off their chest I can say this is one thing that sits really bad with them. It is a job, in which you interact with people for various reasons (dirty minded or not), so as long as it is between consenting adults and no one gets hurt…why do other people care so much and look down on it? Ironically enough I think those are exactly the kind of people that would need a long and sincere conversation about themselves with exactly the women we just talked about.
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